2019. Share. Get BIGGER.

Happy New Year guys.

If you’re reading this, it means you made it.

You have successfully rocked Detty December and now its 1st, you’ve remembered that January is 3 months and you’re already broke…Image result for detty december

Anyways don’t complain, Just be grateful to Baba God that you made it. (please don’t a ask me for a loan, I’m also broke)

A lot happened last year that I didn’t exactly talk about.

I made lots of money, lost lots of money. I supposedly found love and then that flew past. I made some awesome new friends who opened my mind up to new things and we had some amazing experiences. I visited new places that changed my perspective on some of my curiosities and calmed some mentally disturbing issues. The next few posts will be dedicated to these experiences I had last year.

I also did some stuff that is NSFW, expect those stories too…

Alright, let’s get to it.

I  started this website to share my ideas and experiences because a lot goes on in my head that is unspoken and a lot happens to me that I know might be educational, entertaining (mostly) and inspirational someone but then, work,  laziness and other people of the world (excuses) would not allow me to share and be great.

Another major reason I wasn’t consistent with my writing last year was that I was seeking perfection. I was waiting for my ideas and experiences to be on point before publishing but then, they were never perfect and I never shared them. Maybe I was trying to be perfect to be accepted first but that made me somewhat invisible.

BUT As God would have it, and unfortunately for those people of the world listed above, He revealed to me that sharing is my theme for this year.

This year, this is the plan, share everything from my thoughts to my interests, to things that inspire me, from my best days to my worst days because if not, I feel I’d slide into minor depression.

Share all the love, my experiences, my time. Share my money to people also, share myself with people sef … these are all joys of life.

Basically, I’m giving myself all out.

I think that’s what we all should do this year too. Share. Give. It makes you bigger than who you are.

See, if you have a full glass of water, can the glass hold any more water? Yes, but only if you pour out what’s already in it. That’s what I’m doing and asking you to do. If you’re full of ideas, if you’re full of good things, don’t hold back in 2019. I’m asking you to pour them out. As you do, I promise you, more will be poured in.

Funny thing is, unlike a glass, however, when you pour something out of yourself, you become bigger. I have noticed that we humans have the ability to grow in consciousness, awareness, and capacity. Even as kids, we don’t lack the capacity. Ask yourself how many languages a child can learn. Answer: As many as you’ll take the time to teach them. They do not lack capacity.

Image result for jim rohn sharing quote

The same thing is true for us. We don’t lack capacity. Each time we share what we’ve got, we become bigger. Our consciousness grows. Our capacity increases.

And why should we not want our capacity to grow? or are you unfortunate?

We should want it to grow so we can hold more of what is being shared with us. I mean…


Finally, from experience, I’ve learned that the more you share, the more your influence grows. People can relate to your experiences and your advice then they come back to you. They can also point others to you. If you’re lucky enough, you become an expert in whatever area you share about.

If you now do it consistently enough and on social media, your influence might just increase to 1M followers (like Tunde Ednut, those Igwe Tupac or those slay mamas on IG…).

Don’t be like people with a lot of ideas, talents, and experiences boxed up that nobody knows. They now live an unfulfilled life.  Even God will be annoyed.

Learn to share. It’s a glorious experience.  Me, I have promised myself to share and get bigger.

What about you? What are you sharing this year?

I challenge you to share.

Happy new year.

Keep Winning.


5 Replies to “2019. Share. Get BIGGER.”

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  2. Really Nice content, great work tochi, keep it up.

  3. Since I’m your younger sister, you should do a lot of sharing to me. It’s called sisterly love.😆😀

    1. lol Who is this person…

      Thanks maama.

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